Stop Worrying What Other People Think of You

10 Reasons To Ignore What Other People Think Of You 

It is human nature to want to be liked and accepted by others. We accept the status quo for what it is because everyone around us does. We tip-toe our way through life by doing things in order to please others. Eventually, our actions, appearances, and lives become molded by how we think other people perceive us. But the truth is, what others think about us can often adversely impact the choices we make and the things that we do. This desire to conform to the wishes of others can seriously conflict with our ability to lead independent and rich lives. 

Number 1 - Your Life Is Your Business 

How many times have you pondered over questions like: How are these clothes going to make me look? What will my colleagues think if I speak out? Are those people talking shit behind my back? If I take this job, what will my friends and family think of me? Look, People are entitled to think whatever they want. Just as you are entitled to think what you want! What people think of you cannot change who you are or what you are worth - unless you allow them to. This is your life to live. At the end of the day, you are the only person who needs to approve of your own choices. Well, unless of course if you're married. That's a whole other topic! 

Number 2 - They Don't Know What's Best For 

You It's important to recognize that another person's opinion is often based on what THEY would do. This alone is the problem. What is best for somebody else, may not be the best for you. Nobody will ever be as invested in your life as you. So only you know what is best for you, and that entails learning from your own choices. The only way you will ever truly learn is through making your own decisions and taking full responsibility for them. This way, if you do fail, at least you can learn from it wholeheartedly, as opposed to blaming somebody else. 

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