81 - Single - 為什么你還單身

2020-09-20 10:23:5504:17 577

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I'm single because:
我單身是因?yàn)椋?br />I am very, very, very picky. I figure I'd rather be single than be stuck in a relationship with someone I'm not totally crazy about.
我非常、非常、非常挑剔。我想我寧可單身也不要被困在和我一點(diǎn)也不喜歡的人在一起的關(guān)系中。
Unfortunately, the few who pass my standards do not seem to like me that way.
不幸的是，少數(shù)達(dá)到我交往標(biāo)準(zhǔn)的人似乎并不那么喜歡我。
I'm lazy. I don't make much of an effort to meet people and get to know mildly interesting people.
我很懶。我并沒(méi)有在迎合別人上花費(fèi)太多精力，也沒(méi)有去結(jié)交稍微有點(diǎn)意思的人。
I'm busy. I work a lot. Also, I do a lot of other things when I'm not at work and most of them do not involve meeting single men.
我很忙，我工作繁重，我在工作以外的時(shí)間也有很多其他事情要做，而他們之中的大部分都無(wú)關(guān)和單身男子見(jiàn)面的事。
I'm shy. I will not make the first move because rejection sucks.
我很害羞，我不會(huì)走出第一步，因?yàn)楸话l(fā)卡實(shí)在是太糟糕了。
I take relationships seriously, that is something I can't help, so I become pretty emotionally involved. This results in me being extremely picky. Also, because relationships are so important to me when I have one, it's not really compatible with my being extremely busy at this younger stage in my life.
我會(huì)忍不住很認(rèn)真地對(duì)待情侶關(guān)系，所以我會(huì)投入很多感情。這就導(dǎo)致我在這方面非常挑剔。也正是因?yàn)榍閭H關(guān)系對(duì)我如此重要，當(dāng)我談戀愛(ài)的時(shí)候，我將無(wú)法將它和我人生里這個(gè)較為年輕的階段中忙碌的生活之間的關(guān)系處理好。
Or maybe just because I'm young and don't really know what I am looking for, and thus am commitment-phobic.
或者也有可能只是因?yàn)槲疫€年輕，并不知道自己真正想要的是什么，因此害怕給出承諾。