走心英文：Do the right things

If you are someone who is on a constant, never ending search for growth and self development… spending time with those who aren’t can be very draining. 

如果你是一個(gè)不斷追求成長(zhǎng)和自我發(fā)展的人…花時(shí)間和那些不思進(jìn)取的人在一起，可能會(huì)讓你筋疲力盡。

You may not need to end your time with these people, they may be family, or life long friends…but to expect your greatest life, when you surround yourself with people who have zero intention of getting better, ever – that’s insanity. 

你可能沒(méi)法完全與他們斷開(kāi)聯(lián)系，他們可能是家人，或者是終身的朋友…但是你總是和那些不思進(jìn)取的人待在一塊，卻又指望自己的生命有什么起色，那就太荒唐了。

At the end of the day you choose who you spend time with, and you choose who you spend the most time with. You don’t have to be rude, or abrupt or disrespectful when limiting or ending time you spend with people – you don’t even have to explain why.

最終，你選擇與誰(shuí)共度時(shí)光，選擇與誰(shuí)共度最多的時(shí)光。想要限制或者停止與他人相處的時(shí)間時(shí)，你不必粗魯、唐突或無(wú)禮——你甚至不必解釋原因。

Just do what feels right for you, because that, is usually what is right for everyone involved. 

你只需要相信自己的直覺(jué)，憑直覺(jué)做出的決定，往往是最合適的。

【重點(diǎn)詞匯&表達(dá)】

1.self development

  自我發(fā)展；

2.draining

 令人精疲力竭的；

3.life long friends

 終生的朋友；

4.insanity [?n'sæn?t?]

 瘋狂；精神錯(cuò)亂；愚頑；

5.disrespectful

 無(wú)禮的；失禮的；不尊敬的；