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對(duì)校園霸凌說不
By D’Arcy Lyness
文 / 達(dá)西·利內(nèi)斯 譯 / 季素萍 賀鶯
Each day, 10-year-old Seth asked his mom for more and more lunch money. Yet he seemed skinnier than ever and came home from school hungry. It turned out that Seth was handing his lunch money to a fifth-grader, who was threatening to beat him up if he didn’t pay.
塞斯今年 10 歲，他向媽媽要的午飯錢一天比一天多，卻總餓著肚子回家，人也日漸消瘦。實(shí)際情況是，他把午飯錢都給了一個(gè)五年級(jí)學(xué)生，該生威脅說不給錢就揍他。
Kayla, 13, thought things were going well at her new school, since all the popular girls were being so nice to her. But then she found out that one of them had posted mean rumors about her. Kayla cried herself to sleep that night and started going to the nurse’s office complaining of a stomachache to avoid the girls in study hall.
凱拉今年 13 歲，本來覺得新學(xué)校一切都好，那些受歡迎的女孩都對(duì)自己不錯(cuò)，但后來卻發(fā)現(xiàn)其中有人散布關(guān)于她的謠言。那天晚上，凱拉是哭著睡著的，后來就開始裝肚子疼跑去醫(yī)務(wù)室，避免在自習(xí)室遇到那些女孩。
In national surveys, most kids and teens say that bullying happens at school.
美國國內(nèi)調(diào)查顯示，大多數(shù)少年兒童都稱存在校園霸凌現(xiàn)象。
A bully can turn something like going to the bus stop or recess into a nightmare for kids. Bullying can leave deep emotional scars. And in extreme situations, it can involve violent threats, property damage, or someone getting seriously hurt.
霸凌者會(huì)把去公交車站或課間休息這樣的事演變?yōu)楹⒆觽兊呢瑝簟０粤钑?huì)造成嚴(yán)重的情感創(chuàng)傷。極端情況下，有可能涉及暴力威脅、財(cái)產(chǎn)破壞，甚至造成人員重傷。
There are ways to help your child cope with teasing, bullying, or mean gossip, and lessen its lasting impact.
以下方法可以幫助孩子應(yīng)對(duì)戲弄、欺凌、謠言等問題，降低持續(xù)的不良影響。
Identifying bullying
何謂霸凌
Most kids have been teased by a sibling or a friend at some point. And it’s not usually harmful when done in a playful, friendly, and mutual way, and both kids find it funny. But when teasing becomes hurtful, unkind, and constant, it crosses the line into bullying and needs to stop.
大多數(shù)孩子都曾被兄弟姐妹或朋友戲弄過。如果是鬧著玩的、友好的、相互的，兩個(gè)孩子都覺得有趣，通常是無害的。一旦戲弄變得傷人、不友善并且持續(xù)發(fā)生，就超越底線演變成為霸凌，必須加以制止。
Bullying is intentional tormenting in physical, verbal, or psychological ways. It can range from hitting, shoving, name-calling, threats, and mocking to extorting money and possessions. Some kids bully by shunning others and spreading rumors about them. Others use social media or electronic messaging to taunt others or hurt their feelings.
霸凌是對(duì)人進(jìn)行身體、言語或心理上的蓄意折磨。毆打、推搡、辱罵、威脅、嘲弄以及勒索錢財(cái)?shù)榷紝儆诎粤璧姆懂?。有些孩子故意排斥他人，散布有關(guān)他們的謠言；還有些通過社交媒體、電子信息等方式辱罵他人、傷害他人感情。這些行為都屬于霸凌。
It’s important to take bullying seriously and not just brush it off as something that kids have to “tough out.” The effects can be serious and affect kids’ sense of safety and self-worth. In severe cases, bullying has contributed to tragedies, such as suicides and school shootings.
霸凌問題須認(rèn)真對(duì)待，絕不能置之不理，讓孩子自己“咬牙堅(jiān)持”。霸凌可能嚴(yán)重影響孩子的安全感和自我價(jià)值感。嚴(yán)重情況下，霸凌曾釀成自殺、校園槍擊等慘劇。
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