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在一生中，你會遇到很多不同類型的人。
Some may become lifelong friends, whilst others should be avoided at all costs.
有些人可能會成為一輩子的朋友，而另一些人則應(yīng)該不惜一切代價避免成為朋友。
But how do you differentiate between these kinds of people?
但你如何區(qū)分出這類人呢？
Well, to help you out, here are six types of people you should avoid at all costs.
好吧，為了幫助你，這里有六種你應(yīng)該不惜一切代價避免的人。
Number one, the self-absorbed.
第一，自我陶醉的人。
Are they always only thinking about themselves?
他們總是只為自己著想嗎？
Self-absorbed individuals believe that the world revolves around them.
自我陶醉的人認(rèn)為世界國繞著他們轉(zhuǎn)。
Because of this, you may notice that they don't and won't give much thought about you.
正因為如此，你可能會注意到，他們不會也不會太多地考慮你。
Even though you're in their company, you may find yourself feeling abandoned and lonely.
即使他們陪伴著你，你也可能會有被遺棄和孤獨(dú)的感覺。
This occurs because they believe that there is no use or point in having a genuine relationship with anyone else.
這是因為他們認(rèn)為，與其他人建立真正的關(guān)系沒有任何用處或意義。
You're just a way for them to boost their self-esteem.
你只是他們提升自尊的一種方式。
Number two, the manipulator.
第二，擅于操縱的人。
Do they drain your time and energy?
他們會耗盡你的時間和精力嗎？
Manipulators will try to know everything about you, from your likes and dislikes to other detrimental things about your personal life and utilize this information to further their own hidden purpose.
擅于操縱的人會試圖了解你的一切，從你的好惡到你個人生活中其他有害的事情，并利用這些信息來推進(jìn)他們自己隱藏的目的。
You may even notice that most of your conversations are about getting to know you, with little or no contribution from them.
你甚至可能會注意到，你的大部分對話都是關(guān)于了解你的，很少或根本沒有涉及他們的信息。
They'll go to any length to win you over so they can use what they know to manipulate you later on.
他們會不遺余力地贏得你的支持，這樣他們就可以在以后利用他們所知道的來操縱你。
Number three, the judgmental.
第三，愛說三道四的人。
Are they quick to tell you what is and isn't cool?
他們會很快告訴你什么是酷的，什么是不酷的？
Perhaps they have a knack for making you feel bad about the things thatyou care about the most.
也許他們有一個訣竅，可以讓你對你最關(guān)心的事情感到難過。
Instead of acknowledging and learning from the different kinds of people in life, judgemental people will look down on others and judge them for being different from themselves.
愛評判的人會看不起別人，認(rèn)為別人和自己不一樣，而不是承認(rèn)和學(xué)習(xí)生活中不同的人。
They'll judge every aspect of your life and leave you feeling worthless or embarrassed about the things that you like and the qualities that make you who you are.
他們會評判你生活的方方面面，讓你對你喜歡的東西和讓你成為現(xiàn)在的你的品質(zhì)感到無用或?qū)擂巍?br>
Therefore, it's best to avoid them at all costs.
因此，最好是不惜一切代價避免和這樣的人相處。
Number four, the gossipers.
第四，愛說閑話的人。
Gossipers take pleasure in the downfall of others.
愛說閑話的人以他人的不幸為樂。
It may seem amusing at first to pry into someone else's personal or professional blunders, but it can quickly become tiresome and make you feel filthy, especially when it causes harm to others.
一開始窺探別人的個人或職業(yè)錯誤似乎很有趣，但很快就會變得令人厭倦，讓你感到骯臟，特別是當(dāng)它對他人造成傷害時。
Gossipers like to spread rumors, look down on you, and never miss an opportunity to point out any of your mistakes.
說長道短的人喜歡散播謠言，看不起你，從不放過任何一個指出你錯誤的機(jī)會。
This toxic habit of talking about things that don't involve them is one of the main reasons why you should avoid them.
這種談?wù)撆c他們無關(guān)的事情的有害習(xí)慣是你應(yīng)該避開他們的主要原因之一。
Number five, the envious.
第五，善妒的人。
he grass is always greener on the other side for envious individuals.
對心懷嫉妒的人來說，這山望著那山高。
Even when something wonderful happens to them, they'll find a way to be unsatisfied with it.
即使有美好的事情發(fā)生在他們身上，他們也會找到不滿足的方式。
This happens because they tend to compare their fortunes or misfortunes to that of the rest of the world when they should accept the outcomes and work on them.
這是因為，當(dāng)他們應(yīng)該接受結(jié)果并為之努力時，他們往往會將自己的命運(yùn)或不幸與世界其他地區(qū)的命運(yùn)或不幸進(jìn)行比較。
And let's face it, if you look hard enough, you'll always find someone who is doing better.
讓我們面對現(xiàn)實(shí)吧，如果你足夠努力，你總會找到做得更好的人。
get jealous easily since they'll always look for ways to make you feel bad about your own accomplishments instead of cheering you on.
和那些容易嫉妒的人呆在一起心理會變得不健康，因為他們總是想方設(shè)法讓你為自己的成就感到難過，而不是為你彩。
And number six, the hypocrites.
第六，偽君子。
If you discover that a person's beliefs vary by the minute and that they never follow through on what they say, then you've found yourself a hypocrite.
如果你發(fā)現(xiàn)一個人的信仰每時每刻都在變化，而且他們從來不會兌現(xiàn)自己所說的話，那么你就發(fā)現(xiàn)自己是個偽君子。
It's impossible to predict a hypocrite's course of action.
要預(yù)測偽君子的行動是不可能的。
They may be nice and kind to you one minute and then hurt you the next.
他們可能前一分鐘對你很好，但下一分鐘就會傷害你。
Such people are motivated solely by their own self-interest.
這類人的動機(jī)完全是出于自身利益。
For this reason, you should avoid them at all costs.
出于這個原因，你應(yīng)該不惜一切代價避免和他們相處。
Do you have friends or coworkers that sound like the types we've mentioned?
你有朋友或同事聽起來像我們提到的類型嗎？
Let us know in the comments below.
在下面的評論中告訴我們。
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